Want to settle either by divorce or living together

I married girl whome I love, she is so in love with me, after 2months marriage she left home for my tobacco chewing habit, before marriage, she knows I have habit of chewing tobacco, so how I manage convince and bring her back to home 2 times, once we came home parents shouted on her, tell her you should do this again, if you have let us know we help you to dissolve problems. At time everything was good but when come back to our home town and she went to her parents place, there something is happened, I went to her place to pick up her then she refused to come to my home, after some days her father called said my daughter will come to your home she will not stay with your parents and she will do her own job. So she don't need my parents to be there with me and with her. After some days she did not come to home but she joined some job in other place. She doesn't want to leave me as well as her job and also she doesn't want get divorce as well. She lives in different city and I live in different city. I don't understand what to do next. She said she will make lmy life hell nither she will divorce nor she wants live with me. Kindly suggest what should I do.