Transfer of case

My wife left my home, living with her family for 3.5 years. Me 43,she 40 at present, 1 I talked with her family and relatives, all said that all fault is her but she doesnt listen us. Later all changed their words and telling all fault is mine. 2 Marriage took place 2013, I explicitly said that I wont take dowry, still his brother gave one AC and on TV saying that 'we brothers' want to fill room of our sister. later she taunted for dowry to demean me. 3 I had to file case under section 9 Restitution of Conjugal Rights (march 19) in my city Bikaner (after talks with her relatives for 3 years), she appointed lawyer but never came herself (from her city Ganganagar 240kms from Bikaner), after 4 months she filed Transfer case (as well as stay) in Jodhpur high court. (I didnt get notice still). 4 I dont want to put ANY lie. Should I fight case against transfer or accept as it is. 5 as it appears that she doesnt want to come, should I withdraw the case and file divorce? Few Facts if any can be helpful to counter the TRANSFER case, She is not employed, daughter of 5 years is with her, her brother is politician, he had filed false SCST case (using servant as tool) (and lost) against opponents, he has FIR under gambling act under his name, Her retired father was Income tax officer in gangangar, Her family have two cars and Driver, Her family has mother father, 2 bro and sis-in law in same house. They had accused me that I have bad eyes on their women. They are well to do family. She had hinted to my relative "divorce nahi doongi, usko latka ke rakhoongi" (wont give divorce, will keep him hanging) I am freelancer, she chose to file case in jodhpur (which is far than Bikaner and bikaner is on route, half distance) rather than coming to bikaner.