Husbands affair

Hello My Name is Aarti married in year 2005 and life was ok with husband I m graduate and he is 10th pass love marriage. still he is working on manager post with fraud B.com cert. we have one daughter 8 yrs old. we have 2 flats one is on my name and other one on both name. he joined that firm recently, I noticed his absent mind at home. and found that having relation with other women in their office. tried to get messages from whats up but he deleted, some how manage to see but he denied. he was out of house telling lie that official tour but the way he was acting outside I found he is in Mumbai when made a black call in his office that lady used to pick and saying he is not there. I tried continuously then he came on line, I kept phone down, then I called on his cell and asked where r u said again lied and said in Jalgaon. then I fired him like anything. next day he came home with all clothes washed & ironed. a person not washing a sinlge cloth at home how can he manage to wash, so I asked now I caught him but he is not accepting and telling we cant stay together etc., now its more than 2 months he is not paying to me a single money I m not asking also always saying that he has filed dirvorced etc., till date no feedback in that 2 months always he used to harsh me with the same give me marriage cert. etc., I told him if u harsh I will go to police. I told my parants and in-laws also. they are telling wait may be black magic etc., he always says I will go . now since last 2 months he is not paying a single money but staying in house not eating food only taking tea in morning. but buying outside food n eating in house. also if I m not at home then cooking & eating. washing his own clothes using my soaps detergents etc., coming late at home after 11.00 pm only actually his office hrs. 9.30 to 6.00 pm I can understand due to heavy load he may get late, even I told him to call once he starts from office. but no. if we calls not taking calls. I called that lady also and fired her. she is married with one son. in return she told my husband and my husband fired me whay u called etc., I m not able to understand weather their relations are still there or not. husband is still going out last satuday also not at home. too much mental harassment....