How to defend False DV case and False 498a case

Hello respected sir/madam, my wife allready filed false DV case against me and my family members.that case is under the stage of cross examination. I have allready submitted all proofs, evidence to defend myself. I was try to settle down that case but my wife and mother in law demand huge amounts of money.i am very poor and working in small company as office boy. How can I give them 5 lakhs and 10 lakhs.? My payment is just 5000 per month.However court grant interim maintenance of 3000 rs in favour of wife. My education is just 12th pass and my wife is D farm,B pharm graduate.Now my wife file false 498A Private complaint before same court. Court has given order to police u/s 156 or something like that for investigation. She involved all my innocent family members and harrash them. My brother, sister having strong proofs and evidence for proving their innocence. And they want to file counter complaint of cruelty, defamation, mental harrashment. What can I do now in 498a and DV case? My advocate is not active. I have all strong proofs but I feel like useless. I am totally collapse. I don't want to commit suicide but my ability to bear is decreasing. Shall i file counter complaint against my wife? Can I change my advocate?please give me your precious advise. Help me!