Divorce

I am a man living separately from my wife for last 3 years now. As my wife and her parents occupied my house which is in joint name. Now as i am jobless and dont have money to pay or my livelyhood is at stake. I had filed divorce case in july 2016, Wife filed domestic violence case in september 2016 and the lower court ordered in january 2018 to pay 30000INr per month as interim maintenance as which i dont have any capacity to pay as my ITR even shows my income as only INR 10K per month. Tried to apeeal in district but nothing happened. Now since last year march that is march 2018 I am not attending court. Its almost a year now since attended court or paid anything as am trying to survive myself. Tried many jobs and not able to get any till date. Living separately for last 3 years now. Now wife is not ready to give divorce though she had already occupied my flat and plot property and my other things including gold and silver jewelry. I am ready to give away these permanently to her inlieu of permanent one time settlement. I just need Divorce. What Can i do to get this. Siva Prasad