Divorce Case

I got married in Dec 2005 and filed divorce petition in May 2017 in Family court Vadodara. Primary reasons for divorce are extra marital affair of my wife and constant violent abuse of my 8 years old by my wife. I settled in France with my wife and daughter since Jan 2014. In April 2017, I came to India with my wife and daughter and I talked to my wife’s family about her affair and her behavior with my child. But instead of accepting/regretting, they get me out from their house. Then I with my daughter went back to France again. In August, my wife came back to France (on 10th Aug) and lived with her friend until 14th Aug. I went out of France on 12th Aug for vacation and during my absence, she got broke the lock and entered into my house and stole gold and some important papers. According to French laws, I could not file complaint of theft against my wife! Later I (with my daughter) had to come back to India. Nothing had moved in case until Aug 2018 until I met one of the relative of my wife who was willing to be middle-men to get the settlement done between 2 parties. 2 parties even agreed on alimony money and I got the demand draft out from bank. Then opposition lawyer was asking me 1 lac fees to make the progress and apparently, I agreed to that also. I also agreed to return their gold (that came from bride side during marriage) and asked them to return my gold which my wife stole from my house in France. They agreed on that and asked me to send the pics of gold I have. In trust, I sent pics of all the gold and marked which is my wife’s gold and which one I purchased after marriage. And after that my wife is denying that she doesn’t have any gold and the gold I shared pics of was the one I brought from France. So as there was no truth and trust, we abandoned the talks and let case go as it was. Now my wife’s lawyer had put some complaints in local mahila police and local police station in India. Police came to my home when my parents (senior citizens) were alone at home during Diwali vacation. My parents would like to get rid of the case, so I asked my lawyer to re-initiate the discussion. Now they are demanding double amount than the one we agreed earlier and demanding all gold. I have been literally mentally harassed. My wife is still living in France and earning decent amount, but I do not have her salary slip or anything through which I can prove. They also have put petition to provide her 150000 INR monthly as alimony. I have my daughter with me and I have liability of her education etc. I feel that Indian constitution is gender biased and due to which ladies take advantage and blackmail husbands. I have proofs and witnesses of all the statements that I made but the case is scattered in two different countries. Not sure how to move forward. Any suggestion/help would be really appreciated as I am really really fed up. Regards, Hitesh