Wife not agreed for divorce

Hi, In 2013 may got married and got separated in November 2015 we made a written agreement in the presents of both side elders for separation due to misunderstanding between us . Their will be no interfere in personal life of each others and we can go for legal divorce at any point of time. We are staying separate from November 2015 till now . I filed a divorce under cruality (13a & b) and dissertation grounds in march 2016 from Markapuram district court since my wife staying in Goa ( but her native is Vemapadu, Nellore district) . after 6 months she filed a counter for not accepting divorce and their lawyer said they need money for accepting divorce. Which we have accepted but we didn't found the matching figure for settlement . I had asked my lawyer to priced with case since we are not getting proper response after 2 years , even judge asked for providing evidence otherwise he will dissolve the case where both parties not present in front of judge. In June 2018 Chief affidavit submitted and cross examination done by ex party lawyer. Now case is under further evidence submission stage in court. Their lawyer trying to prove that this case not comes under AP jurisdiction since I am in Bangalore and she is Goa. But my father was working in Ap state Govt till June 2016 and till 2017 I stayed in Ap along with my parents due to settlement of his retirement. Recently in September we received a call from police SI near her native place in Andrapresh about 498a , they said if we are interested in settling out of court we can visit them, but they refused to file case against me. The very next day we received call from CI,Udayagiri ,AP stating 498A is complaint given by my wife and I should visit once police station regarding the same . we explained about Case in court, but they insisted we should meet CI once. Even our lawyer suggested to visit and find out a way to settlement out of court, since it will close soon compared to court process. But now two times we went to CI and discussion failed due to her parents are not present and mediators from her side asking for 25Lacks. I become jobless due to this issues from 3 years and I will be able to pay her 2 lacks only. But their demand is Rs 5 lacks now. They are not agreeing for divorce and I am not having any source of income to pay that huge amount. How to go about it now to get divorce? She is not showing interest for divorce due to I am not able to give her 5 lacks. Police not given me any document regarding this.