Non consumation of marriage

Hi, In my case, me and my wife had been married since 27 days and non consumation of marriage has happened. However, we indulged in oral sex etc. One day on instigation of her parents my wife asked me that it has been 1 month since the marriage has not been consumated (reason was also that she said refused kids for 1 year) (She has night duty and I have day although I work at home). To which I replied that it can be consumated now and she said it would be forced. She was getting irritated/aggressive so I walked out of the room and said we can speak this matter the next day as we had (3 days to decide). The next day, her parents and relatives came and took her away saying marriage is not consumated. Her father leveled allegations on me in front of all the relatives and abused me with foul language. I filed a lawyer notice through my lawyer for RCR. They filed a counter lawyer notice stating that I am impotent and fraud because parents did not reveal before marriage. My question is should I go ahead with RCR? (I know if she comes back there can be even more problems in my life. I think she has someone and got married only due to parent`s pressure). Please advice on the legal routes. (I know if I file RCR they will counter it with IPC 498A and will have to go to police station. How do I save my reputation?