Entitlement after divorce

Me and my husband are considering divorce as he is interested in remarrying someone. I am not sure about mutual consent will be best way as he refuses any kind of reconciliation and currently lives in same city in another hse and returns home only on weekends. Married for 6.5 yrs (7 in Nov). We have a 3.5 yrs old son. He refused to work on martial issues but has been constantly asking me for divorce on mutual consent and child to be kept with him on weekends. We are both working making 23 L to 25L per year individually. My son was always taken care by a baby sitter though my in laws are home. 1. We bought a house 4 years ago where my fatherinlaw paid 47% of down payment and me and husband are paying the loan equally. We have repaid 25% now. The house is in name of 3 ppl (husband, myself and father in law). Me and spouse paid 5 to 6 lakhs too in cash. What will be the result if we split and share. What are my options in claim? 2. All assets/home things are being paid by me in share with hubby. Can I claim that. 3. My son was gifted gold. Will I be able to get that under his name as I dont trust they will give him anything later. 4. Will my son get any share of the fathers property? 5. What should be the alimony if I am a basic graduate and for some reason have the uncertainty of losing my job? but yes I have always landed in good jobs 6. Could I claim for the marriage expenses. 7. What amt child maintenance does he have to pay. Is inflation considered as his needs will increase with time 8. What kind of visitation rights does the court allow father/grand parents. 9. Is it beneficial for me to initiate the case or wait for him or agree on mutual consent. My purpose was to patch up but he refuses to see counsellors and I am on regular counselling sessions as I am in poor health. 10. Is there a way I can stop paying the loan amount before divorce as I need more money for my day to day things 11. I am alone paying for my sons education, doctor expenses, maids, etc can I claim that under child alimony. As he is equally responsible. 12. If he refuses my clauses for agreeing on mutual consent. Can I file the case that he has been harassing for divorce and now not agreeing to my basic rights? 13. Can he forcefully take my kid away. If yes could police help. 14. If I stay alone is there a issue with divorce I dont need anything more than what I have given from him basically and either ways want to move on with my kid.