Maintenance and welfare of senior citizen act 2007

(1) I live in haryana where Haryana govt version of the above said act apply. My father and my uncle are real brother. (2) my grand mother now lives with her brother. (3) her brother filed a suit against my father under Maintenance and welfare of senior citizen act 2007 and demands that my father have to keep her into our home to take care of her. (4) but , due to enmity between my mother and grandmother, due to no love between my grandmother and our family, daily dispute between my mother and grandmother, we are unable to keep her with us. (5) my uncle says he can keep my grandmother, but my grandmother wants to stay with us , but we can give her only monthly maintenance upto 10000/- per month. all of this matter is with SDM Tribunal under the above said act. (6) SDM emphatically says we will have to keep my grandmother otherwise he would transfer the matter to civil court to make us face more problem. (can he do this under Haryana govt. version of this act because in central act he cannot transfer the case to civil court, so which version prevails between Central version and State version) (7) so i want to say that if my uncle is satisfied in keeping her with him and we will give maintenance. than whats the solution so that my grandmother remain with my uncle.