RCR or 498a Which is the right Decision

Hi Everyone, I am married since 4 years and have a 2 year son. My husband Tried To take expartee divorce without my knowledge but luckily got to know and I am contesting the divorce now. He has filed divorce in August 2017 but lived with me till December 2017, he has attended the court with out my knowledge. Now the counseling is over and Counter has to be filed by me. As he tried to expartee, he has given the reason that I am having "Schizophrenia" which is a false allegation. I would request you to help me to decide the right path now. I am a victim of genuine domestic violence and dowry harassment but I didn't file any 498a and dv yet because I was waiting for him to realize and come back. I waited for 9 months but he is not ready to accept me and also he didn't even come to see the baby even when he was admitted in hospital. I am not expecting any maintenance from him. I want to reunite with him. Is filing RCR good or 498a ? I want my husband to take back the divorce or the divorce case should get dismissed. Which one is the best solution. My divorce is not because of any problems between us it is totally a problem for Money. They want me to earn in lakhs which I am unable to do. What are the possibilities to win the RCR?