Mental herrasment by father

I am a doctor, I married against the wish of my father after waiting for 2 years when he didn't even support me economically. I had to work and even take money from my boyfriend when I needed money. All my relatives and his relatives attended the marriage except my parents. On the day evening of marriage he called us back home and arranged reception two days later. Everything was fine but my father took 15lakhs loans 10 years back and now with interest it came around 80 lakhs. He took educational loan 4 lakhs on my name even though when I was getting scholarship for my study.. He didn't even pay that back.. We have a property costs 1 crore.. He is not willing to sell completely even after repeatedly asking him to clear all loans and be happy with what ever is left 10-15 lakhs.. He herrases me saying I went away against his will to marry.. So he assumes and says I am no longer his family.. He insists me to keep quite and don't get involved in the issues about money.. But for past 6-7 years he was not selling the house.. Sooner or later the whole property goes out of our hands.. He scolds me very badly if I say him to sell the land completely and clear all loans..