I am supposed to file a divorce case against my wife, but I am afraid of alumni amount.

Sir, My marriage took place before 9 years and it was a Love Marriage. There was no dowry in marriage. Moreover, the bride's family did not spend a single paisa in marriage and everything was arranged by me only. After marriage, my wife, was continuously doing private jobs and was earning more than 20,000/- till 30,000/- INR in a month. She was used to send half of her salaries to her parents and I never objected the same. Moreover I paid her study loans, of more than Rs. 1 Lac, which she availed before marriage. She has a MBA Degree. She had a quarreling nature, since starting but I adjusted anyhow. I have a 2.5 years baby girl. I reside in a rented house, in NCR location and my monthly income is 48 thousands. I have 2 personal loans and paying Rs. 21,000/- as EMI, which will be continued for next 4 years at least. She has done a professional certificate course, for which I paid the full fee and now she is getting a job for Rs. 17000/- per month. Issues to decide for divorce are:- 1. She does not want to visit my parents, even she never speaks to them on phone. 2. She once has thrown out my mother from my rented house and whole night she and myself stayed in a waiting lounge of a hospital, as my father was admitted there. 3. She speaks bad words / abuses to my parents and my younger sister. 4. Most of the times, she does not prepare food for me and I have to cook myself, after reaching back from office. 5. She always abuse me and does not respect me. 6. She never allows my baby girl to meet my old parents, who have severe diseases too due to old age. 7. We do not have any physical relationship since last 8 months. 8. She is just using me as a source of income. 9. She disobey my religious rituals and the same she teaches to my small age daughter. Like we avoid non vegetarian food in some specific month, but even after request, she daily cooks non vegetarian food and feed to my daughter. 10. If I am not getting any respect, If my parents are not getting any type of support, if my daughter is not being brought up in my culture, I do not think there is any meaning of relationship. Now as I have mentioned, my salaries are about 48 thousand, out of which I pay Rs. 21 thousand in load EMIs, how much she may claim from me as alumni. Also I purchased the household products like AC, Refrigrator, Washing machine from my own income, which she wants to grab along with other materials, jwellaries. What are the relief for me in Hindu Marriage Act / Family Act.