Divorce

It has been 9 yrs after marriage still my husband is always blaming me for the things that has happening in his house. His parents nd other family members are always interfering in our decision making . He never understands me. My inlaws fights me nd always restricts me when i go to my house. Now my husband nd me are both settled abroad. Still when taking decisions my husband calls his parents and ask for the consent. If they say no its no for me. We both were having trouble for having kid but after treatment in the 7 th year we got a baby. Till that time all his family members were mentaly torturing me. Now for silly matters he just get frustrated very fast nd calls me bad words nd then he stops talking for days. After marriage he didnt allow me to gor for the job . His parents have treated my parents very badly several times Now i would like to get divorced but i want my baby with me . He is only 3 yrs now. I want my baby . But if i dont have a job will court ask me to give my baby back to my husband thats the only thing am worried abt. My husband also have told me that u can go to ur house now but baby will be mine. After hearing this am worried a bit. With mutual divorce is it possible for me to keep my baby with me .