Wife left in 1 month of marriage.

I got married in April 2018 and in May 2018 she left over a small dispute. 1)i had asked her not to meet the guy whom she dated before me but she continued meeting and talking to him . 2)i had asked her to come home at 10pm meeting her friends . first incident happened 15 days after marriage after 2 days it got sorted and she promise that she would not talk to that guy hence forth . second thing happened and while her sister who was visiting us and for this petty thing of asking her to come home at 10 they started arguing and next day she took her sister along with her to her native place in gujarat. 3 days later i got a call from her mother who asked me to come to her house to pick up her up but because of my work commitments i told her that it was not possible but i would come next week on which she threated to do police complaint. They came to mumbai on sunday and we met at her relative place but things did not went as expected and they were not ready to listen my point and simply kept on accusing me for not treating there daughter well her (referring to the first incident that happened). After 4 days i got a call from husband of her friend who threatened to physically harm me as the mediator where my wife met that guy was her place (This guy's wife and my wife are best friend lets name her AAA hence forth ) 5 days later i got call from AAA mother who told me that why her daughter name was dragged in the whole thing where the discussion went furious and she threatened to beat me and my mother by entering my house. Ever since that i only spoke to my wife once where she abused me over the phone for not being able to buy her a car,AC and laptop. I wrote her 5 mails asking her to come back but she did not . i also told her that every thing would be sorted just leave that guy aside (her X boyfriend) but she insisted that he would stay in her life .After this i also gave up and made no further communication with her . She has a government job and always has threatened to misuse her powers. With all this my mother is not feeling well and always worried that someone from her friend would harm me . After all this i am also reluctant to bring her back as she is influenced more by her friends and she shared every little details about our personal life with them including our chats .