Girl friend torture

Through Facebook I chatted with a girl and in due course of time she became very close friend of mine.In course of chatting she asked some monetary help which is around 1lakhs apart from gifts ...Which I gave to her ...In process of chatting we did video call..And did romantic one...Sometime back needed money so I asked her..She told she does not have ..So I became very angry and scolded her in WhatsApp ...Now she is married ...So I told her please give my money back ..To which she is telling me again and again that she does not have...To be Frankful I would have asked around 50 times to return my money .Yesterday when I asked money she told that ..She has all the recordings of video call and my comprising (naughty )pics which I have send to her in the process of romantic chat ...She told that I forced her doing romantic video call...So if u ask money she will do a police complain ....So what my question .Is .. Agree I did romantic chat shared mine naughty pics to her ..But it was never a forced one it was mutual..So if she does a police complain.will I go to jail..??? Second I have proof of all the money transaction as it was done..Online ..So will she give my money back ..?? If I do police complain... .Note : I have given money on Feb 2017 and she got married in April 2018..