Divorce

Hello Sir/Madam i got married in 5th may 2011(love marriage). After 6months of marraige some issues started and in between families caste war done and i filed a case about caste problems and separated.Police station case many happened after one year again due to some problem v deceided to live eachother.After started living again issues with that boy in 2014 i left him because am not able to handle him and am back to my parents.Then he sent me divorce and am ready to give divorce but from day one hes telling i want my wife want to live together infront of conciling judge and family court judge. But am not ready to live my life with him because am not sure he will make me to ALIVE. Since from 3years am gng for hiring but he telling i want my wife infront of lawyer. And am not even asking single rupee for settelement.Please can anyone help me out from this...Please suggest something for me even my lawyer is also delaying this from day-1. Am not able to decide what to do am 24years old i losing my carrier because of this distrubance.