Counselling means divorce?

Dear Lawyer, I am a NRI, married at the end of 2016. We are from a middle class family , worked hard and got a very good job. My marriage is arranged marriage with no dowry. Being doctor, my life is engaged for patient care and after marriage my wife started nagging me to have foregin trips and I did it for every 6 mibths. I used to give her freedom to overlook my finance Everytime and not even have a bank account on my name.. Now I came back to India on May 20, 2018 and took her to my home. She is denying to care my parents and absured them on the day 1. Soon I called her parents and told them to council their daughter. Now, they stopped communicating and arguing why to care your parents?. If I don't leave my parents their parents insisting her to take divorce from me. But I am not interested in these types of games. How to overcome these complex narrow minded people's. Now I am living in England and doing my PhD. They are blackmailing me by saying but:With money we can get you into the jail. It disturbing my peace every minute. Kindly help me how to tackle such issues.