Divorce

Hi Sir / Madam, I have been married for last 10 years and have 1 daughter age 8 years i want to take divorce due less understanding between us which escalates to verbal arguments between us every day my wife has left the house before 6 months after an argument with me and now she is renting a place and living all alone initially she said we will go for mutual divorce but now she says that she dont want to go to court and want me to get divorce paper so that she can sign it but i tried explaining her that its not possible as we have to file for divorce in court and it will take around 6 months which includes 3 counselling and we both have to present in court while filing for Divorce after which she has started to avoid my phone calls and messages currently i am taking care of my daughter and i just want make sure that we are separated legally so please let me know what can be done as my daughter is suffering a lot in this case i dont even know where she is residing currently in mumbai and my in laws are also not responding to any of my calls and message please advise me on this