Marriage-Section 125,9

I have married on may 2017. Ours is a orthodox family. My mom gives neecssary advices whenever is required to me and my wife. But she has not taken these positively. She starts arguing with me and my family members. Very oftenly she use to go to their parents house. In one year she has stayed in her parents house for 6 months almost. Later she said that she is pregnant my family members and me felt very happy I went to their house and brought her to our house. Gone for check up on April 2 , tested everything that doctor has suggested in the hospital itself. In hospital she said she don't want give birth to this baby instead she want to abort it. It was very painful thing for me and my mom. Anyhow her father talked to her in this matter. We were back to our house. On April 3rd, she starts quarrelling again with me and my family members. On April 4th, her father came and said give me 2 weeks of time I will set things right back. She went along with her father. Then both have consulted advocate and from advocate phone call has come saying that I should detach from my family should live separately along her away from my town. Else section 498 will be filed. We have gone to their advocate and convinced her that if I get good job better than what I am doing , then definitely I will move there along with her. I am planning for my research work also. But she denied with this . We are very much disappointed. We came back to our home. After one month her advocate has filed section 125 on us. Mentioned that we have taken dowry, cash and gold, and we are harassing her. Also mentioned that we are not giving food,cloth and shelter to her. In June month, she should appear in the course. However we have not done any of those. Again in June month, we have with filed section 9, mentioning that we demanded additional dowry and she has life threat here. However the fact we have not taken any dowry in my marriage and my elder brothers marriage as well. We are against to dowry. This letter is posted to my work place. Every one there is now aware of my personal life. I felt it very insulting and I am depressed. We are told to appear inthe court again in July. I am a private employee getting leaves are very much difficult. If I take too many leaves then I should leave hope on my job. My family members are depressed, my aged mom suffers from knee pain, has hearing problem, BP, muscular contraction, vitamin D deficiency. She can't walk properly. Kindly anyone can give me necessary advice. I will more grateful to them.