Ex parts divorce

Hello, iam Muslim lady with one child of age 4 years. Married since last 8 years, which were very bad. But any how we use to patch up and continue relationship. After birth of child same things continued, my husband is not paying any maintenance for child and me for last 2 years. I reside in his house with my child. I work from home with monthly salary of Rs35000. My husband earns about 6 to 8 laks. I have filled case in court under 39, sec 125 to 128, Muslim marriage act 1939(section 2 and 3). 4 times summon was issued, he being in merchant navy it was sent to his parents house where he is residing since last 1.5 years, but they did not accept saying he is not residing in India. I traced his office and last summon was sent to his office for which we have tracking details of receipt. But company officer refuse the receipt of summon. My lawyer is of opinion of exparte. Where I will get divorce, but what about shelter. I can meet my and my child's daily needs but need shelter. Please guide