How to get stay order and how much time required for that

In My farm 7/12 paper there are 54 names and in that my name is fifth and according to our ansister family tree my share is approx .74 het and I also have a possession on that since last 20 years. And suddenly before 6 months our neighbour has told that within my farm area their is half of the area is related to him, and he break my jali compound and quarreling with me and pressurising me to leave that area and told me that i have no right their. For that purpose only to grab my farm by enforceing me. For that purpose of grabbing my land he also file a civil suit for adding his name to my 7/12. And we don't have a common boundary. For the compound breaking I have complaint in police but they told me go to the court we don't have any rights in your matter. I am helpless as I complaining the same for thesildar, sdo, DM, SP, dy. SP, PI no one could help me. Some told me get the stay order against that then every authority will help you, but when I ask a lawyer for stay he told me it will take a month. Then what is that stay which is getting immediately within a day or two days, I am not understanding what to do or what not to do please help me for that what to do.