Divorce/Maintenance Petition

Hello Sir/Madam, I had a very torturous marriage for nearly 3 years.We were staying in Bangalore. My husband kept forcing me to leave the house. I asked him to give me divorce paper citing all the issues he has with me if he wants me to leave. To which he had Nothing to say. He did not talk to me for six months despite living under the same roof. I tried to pacify things but he was adamant and wanted me to leave. I could not take this trauma any more and wanted to start my life fresh so I decided to go for mutual divorce, to which my husband agreed. We both decided to exchange gold jewellery that was gifted by each other's family during marriage. I returned everything I was given but he did not return anything saying all the items are at his hometown(Durg ,Chattisgarh) house so he will return them when he will come to Mumbai. Also he had said to me and my father that whatever marriage expense was done he will pay that but he will not give any maintenance/alimony. I agreed to this as I also do not want any of his money but I wanted my father's hard earned money which he had spent on my marriage to be returned to him. On this clause both of us agreed and decided to go for mutual divorce. I left Bangalore and came to my home town Mumbai and started procedure for mutual divorce. Papers were sent to him and we were waiting for him to come to Mumbai to file mutual application. Till date it has been 1 year 6 months he didn't show up. My lawyer suggested to file for maintenance which I did. The notice for maintenance could not be received since he changed his job and address. He refused to share his new address. One copy was also sent at his hometown address which was received. On first date he din't show up. Second date is given. What if he does not show up again? How long do I have to wait?I want to know what remedy lies for me in this situation. Thank You.