Love marriage

Iam Muslim girl from chennai but living like a Hindu , my bf from rajput Bihar living in Kolkata , I loving him so much we lived like husband and wife ,, two year younger than me he told me after one month of realationship, and north peopl no problem he said ... when my mom said to marry my daughter he run away from chennai to Kolkata Than I went to see him his father and mom did drama that I kidnapped .. I was cut my vein asking again plz tell me where is he .. 7 to 15 days they hides him After some times so many difficult I met again I took promises for marriage he said I will do After month I asked him will u marry me again he said after I got job I will ,, he got job also in qatar airways now Iam asking him to marry me Now he said wait I need to accept to my father mother but they won't bcoz they want rajput and big shot Iam little poor , no dad only mom but I dint take any money from him .. only I spender my money gifts three year 7 lac travelling chennai to Kolkata so many times stay in hotel roming shopping alll now he working hard .. nice to see he talk to me video call from qatar to chennai but saying not marry me .. I don't kw wat to do .. I don't have dad .. no one support only god if u kw some thing tel me but he loves me for wat still I don't kw .. but I want to marry him bcoz I only love him not money or something