498a and dv

I am a handicapped (one hand paralysed) man with one hand,had to work very hard in IT sector for my living with my retired father and mother . I got married in March2014(Arrange Marriage) in kolkata and came back to Bangalore after 2 weeks completing all the formalities . My wife is highly qualified and working in private firm before marriage . Initially everything went fine but after 2 weeks she started demanding me to arrange her a job which is next to impossible for me , Her parents started interfering in all our family matters . she used to sit all day locked in a room , only coming out of her room 4times for food . Somehow I had no choice other than to accept her this behaviour , everything became normal again . After a month my parents were visiting my elder sister's place at Hyderabad as she is leaving for abroad . Surprisingly my wife want to join them , so they all went to my sisters place. she behaved the same way there locked in one room , not talking to anyone, always in a phone with her parents. After 15 days I went there and get her back in Bangalore . After coming back she and her family started torturing me in absence of my parents , she asked me to not allow my parents at Bangalore home anymore , cannot keep any contact with any relatives . her parents started abusing me and my family members in phone and threatening me for Dowry case if I don't agree with their terms. Inspite of such torture, I did not agree on their terms , so she left Bangalore and went back to kolkata to her parents in May2014 . After that she and her parents keep calling me to visit them alone and leave my parents.They abused me like anything in phone for more than a year. In sept2015 she came to Bangalore in absence of my parents and created big drama in my society and office and keep forcing me to meet at home alone. She went and call to all our friends and relatives and propagated bad words about us spoiling our image in society. In Sep2015 she put a case for Right to conjugal living but withdrawn within few weeks and finally in Nov2015 she put 498A case against me and my whole family . She used her influence and police submitted the charge sheet against us in court within a month . Me and my parents got the bail from court . In Feb2016 she put a DV and Maintenance case on me giving all sort wrong information and heavy maintenance amount . The case is ongoing in court . She is telling all my relatives and lawyers that she will harass me till my death and snatch all mine and my father's money. she is not even ready to give me divorce. All she want is my harassment and huge money. Is there a way that I can get rid of her and get divorce? Does my sister and brother-in-law also need bail if they come to India?Can I transfer my cases to Bangalore as its very hard for me to attend all the dates which I want to do . Can she take away all my money and my father's property? Please suggest and help me.