marriage

meri shadi 18/4/2014 ko hui thi. shadi se pehle mere sasural wale mere gharwalo se meethi meethi baate karte the. lekin shadi ke 20 din ke andar hi wo talak magne lage. wo apni beti ko phone par hamare khilaf galat shiksha dete the. hamne unki phone record kar ke save kar liye. jisme wo saas se ulta bolna, kisi se na dabna, aur hamare ghar ki daily report etc baate karte the. 1 din unhe call recording ka pata lag gaya aur uske papa 29/5/14 ko ladki ke M.A. ke exam ke bahane 1 mahine ke liye jabardasti le gaye. phir unhone 3 mahine tak use nahi bheje. phir kuch logo ke kehne par hamne unki saari baate mankar 19/8/14 ko use wapas le aaye. lekin uski mummy ne sart me ladki ko mobile saath dekar bheja. phir bhi ladki wapas maike jane ke liye naye naye kales karti rahi aur uske mata pita uska saath dete the. mere papa ko kisi babaji ne behka diya is ladki ka 100% apne maike me kisi ladke se love he aur me iska proof de doonga. kuch dino ke baad mere papa ne ladki ke papa se apne ghar par shanti se ye bola ki hame pata chala he ladki ka koi chakkar he. aap daro mat hum aapke saath he. aap hamara saath iska sasural me man lagane ke liye do. is baat par ladki ka papa gussa ho gaya aur hamesha ki tarah panchayat (12/10/14) ko le aaya. aur is moke ka poora fayda uthana chaha aur talak magne laga. humne phir bhi apni galti mankar baat age badai. aur mene panchayat se bolkar uska persnal mobile wapas kara diya. ab wo apne maike me daily 3 bar mere phone se baat karti thi jiske karan wo sari report nahi de pa rahi thi. ab thoda thi thak chal raha tha. lekin 14/2/15 ko achanak 2 months ka baccha pet me kharab ho gaya aur safai karwani padi. ab 22/2/15 ko ladki ke papa ist holi ke liye le jane ke liye aane wale the. mene usse bola tu almari ki sari chabi apne sath lock karke le jati he. 1 chabi mujhe de jaya kar. mere kapde almari se bahar kyo rakh jati he. usne mujhe na chahte hue 1 chabi de di, me bola agar tu nahi dena chahti to chabi le ja. agli baar tak soch le. lekin phir usne mujhe 1 chabi de di aur mene uske samne tad par rakh di. phir uske papa meri mobile shop par aaye unke mobile me network nahi aa rahe the. maine unka mobile thik kar diya aur unhe ghar jane ke liye kaha. mene kaha main abhi aata hoo. mere pahuchne se pehle ladki ke papa ne mobile ladki ko de diya aur bole apni mummy se upar jakar akele me baat karle. is bar use akele baat karne ka moka mil gaya. aur usne almari ki chabi, pati patni ke hasi majak etc sari baate bol di. uski mummy ne usse bola tu chabi unhe na dekar aa. ab wo mujhe bataye bager chabi churakar le gai aur kapde bahar nikal gai jabi meri chain, anguthi, ghadi etc ka pata nahi almari me chod gai he ya thele me pack karke le gai he. mere ghar walo ne use apni taraf se bhi shadi ke samay se kafi sone chandi ki cheeje de rakhi he. ab uska papa waha jakar mere 4 bar phone karne ke baad bhi meri patni se baat nahi kara rahe he. aur humse direct baat na karke kisi doosre aadmi se bol raha he ab ye rista age nahi badega. main to panchayat karoonga, court jaunga. jabki mene use itna khus rakhna chaha. uski saari baate mani. uske chakkar main uske gharwalo ki saari baate mani. lekin unhone mujh par hi bharosa nahi kiya. mere pass meri unki ladki ki uske mata pita ki 10 months ki call recordings he. agar koi bhi banda recording sunta hai to kehta hai. ye MA padi ladki ki language nahi he. hamne usse ghar ke kisi kam ka presure bhi nahi de rakha. ladki har baat par 100 number par call lagane ki dhamki deti he. 10 lakhs rs mangti he. talak mangti he. apni mummy se kehti tune meri jabardasti shadi kyo karai. tu tadak bolti he, hath uthati he, apni mummy se apni hi mummy papa ka gala ghotne ki baat karti he. phir bhi uski mummy papa use beti beti karte rehte he. unhone ise aaj tak nahi dhamkaya. agar dhamkate ya sahi siksa dete aaj ye baat nahi hoti. jab laki ka papa laki se baat karta he to kehte he kab aa rahi he? ye apni mummy se mummy ki bacchi, mehtari, maiyo etc kehti he. aur iski mummy ise dhamkati bhi nahi he aur beti beti kehti rehti he. iske papa iski himayat lene ke liye to phone karte lekin kabhi dhamkane ke liye nahi kiya. koi bimari ho jane par ye apni mummy ki salah ke bina koi dawai doctor nahi leti. kabhi iske papa le jane ke liye humse nahi poochte. aapas me ma beti ya baap beti programe bana lete he. mene iske peeche apne gharwalo se bhi burai lee. lekin isne mera kabhi saath nahi diya. isne hamare persnal relation ki bhi sari baate apni mummy ko bata rakhi he. maike jane par jab me isko phone karta hoo. to iski mummy sath betkar isse ulti baat karwati he. mujhe to isse jyada iske mata pita aur unki siksa main galti lagti he. meri patni jab sasural me rehti he to wo mera dhyan rakhti he lekin mummy se phone par baat karte samay ya maike me jane ke baad wo badal jati he. aur apna acha bura nahi soch pati. iske mata pita ne iski jabardasti shadi karai thi. ab wo iski aur meri jindgi barbad karna chahte he. mai iski jindgi aur apni jindgi ko banana chahta hoo. isme ab kya karna chahiye