An effective way out.........
Sir, I am Deepa. I am a Post graduate, hence I am working in a private institution. My husband’s name is Akash. We got married on 7.01.2010. It was an arranged marriage. My husband deserted us in the year of 2011(Oct). He is right now living in Sharjah. He is no more in touch with us. He never revealed anything about the place where is working in nor he has an idea of living together with us. He seized my daughter’s birth certificate, her passport and our marriage certificate. Only after a long struggle I got my degree certificates from him. As long as we were there together, it was all the mental harassment that I was forced to undergo every day. He along with his mother gave me a lot of mental agony. She was the biggest master mind at the back of all these incidences and more over his act of sadism towards me added up to this. He used to drink a lot. I was always left all alone, cornered , tortured by words. As a wife I was always avoided. All these left me totally depressed. And now I need proper justice in this abandonment. I need to know the meaning of this life of mine and my daughter.
My intention is to live with him. I tried contacting him. But he is not showing any interest towards living together. He just says that he is in need of more time to decide about that. I really don’t know the real reason behind this stone heartedness.
What should I do? I need a proper justice in this case legally. But as far as I heard from the lawyers in my city, I came to know that to file a suit of Maintenance I need to have a proper proof of his income along with proper address. I have got his sister’s residential address (Bangalore),(where my mother in law is also staying). I have my husband’s passport number and the phone number which he is currently using there. I need to know if there is any way to find the address where my husband is working?
Apart from this I need to know if filing the suit for the Restitution of conjugal rights will help me out in this case or will I be digging my own pit by filing it, since it becomes a ground for divorce after a year?
But whomever the lawyers here I consulted with ,are telling me that my case will have no significance without adding some false allegations in it to strengthen the case, since it is all dealing with pure mental harassment which has got no proper evidence(as how a physical harassment holds in other cases) and so. I don’t want to file any case with any false allegations against him or his family.
I and my daughter are left all alone , where I and my parents are forced to answer many questions in the society. I am worried about my daughter’s future without a father nearby. I am worried if it would depress her after few years.
Sir pls suggest me a way out. Will The Indian law give a proper Justice for the ladies who are suffering like me???