Harassment

I am 32 years old women. I was in affair with a boy from 2009 to 2015. He harassed me physically, mentally and financially on promise of marriage. But in January or February 2015 he got engaged with some another girl of his parents choice and then vanished away. Infact his family knew about the affair. When he vanished away I talked to his parents and friends everyone scolded me. Then I took the help of women Garima helpline and gave a application there. Women Garima helpline called him and his parents. Again there I talked to him and his father. They said that day they are ready for marriage and tell to girl she will not go to police or court. But after somedays finally my parents agreed for marriage and called to garima helpline that call to boy and his family we are ready for court marriage. But the Garima helpline lady said they are denying for marriage and saying go to police or court we will meet the girl there. I lodged a FIR and filed a case against him and his family. His arrest warrant has been issued but he came to me and convinced me for marriage by making false promises and emotionally blackmailed me. So in November 2015 we did court marriage and he saved himself from jail. But case has been closed in June/ July 2016. Till now he behaved with me so nicely but when case closed he started torturing me and started asking me to get separated directly or indirectly. We both are living in different cities but he usually came to met me whenever I said him to live together permanently he always started searching for excuses and always try to blame. He is not asking directly for divorce but harassing me physically, mentally and financially as usual. I want to punish him rigorously please suggest me.