Wife is more attached to her family rather than to me or my mother.never listen to me.

I am married since last 11 years.I am in a private job.and my wife is teaching in a private school. the problem is that raight from the beigning she was more attached to her family which in the begning was not an unsuusal thing to me but later ot it strated annoying me.I live in delhi and i never go to my home town very frequently but when even i plan to visit my hometown(rourkela,orissa) she talks of going to her mother's house (jamshedpur,jharkhand).My in laws were not very fond of me thats why I don't like to go their place.She stays over there much more than the stipulated time.And in 2017 she visited her parents 3 times in the name of her mothers illess and for her brothers marriage and recently she left for her parents even after my refusal . it not only disturbs my routine life but badly affects my sons studies as well.when i was in office she left for jamshedpur with my son without my consent on the pretext of her mother's illnes but she has gone to attend the marriage ceremony of her sister.I must tell you that recent my mother underwent cataract operation at my home town which was not successful event after that im anot able to go over to her becuase my private job and my wife has not spoken to her even a single word but she is always eager to visit her mother.I ma fed off of al these things.I want to know what i should do now.