Regarding hmop case

Hello Sir / Madam, I am working in a pvt company and married since 2013, My wife went to her parents home in May 2015 due to the regular fight since marriage and incompatibility in the relationship. Many panchayats have been done with the elders in between these 1 year till March 2016 but did not work out. I served a notice to come n live with me through a lawyer in 2016 May. but no response from them. So filed a HMOP case in August and case been in court till date. In Oct 2017 Judge asked opponent lawyer to file a counter and appear in court or case will be adjourned. Now wife side, they submitted a counter stating that am a impotent and seeking compensation. I dont know what to do now ? Shall i get a blood test certificate or physical examination from Govt and pvt hospital to get the case sorted out. ? or does it requires a direction from court. ? Is that test necessary to have the case ongoing ? She holds considerable amount of money of mine. I have her jewels which is in the box unopened/ They seek compensation along with wardrobe and cot which they give me as well. Am ready to give them the jewels and things which they give me. but i dont have money for compensation as they savings are taken away by her. Allegations mentioned by them is false and not true. To be frank she is not interested in marriage life and also following a different religion, main cause for the quarrel. Please request to guide me what can be done here. I am still repaying the loan which i got for marriage. need your assistance. Marriage was done by ourside. When she stayed int he matrimonial home, she always quarrels and fight with parents and me. time she spent here is very less than 6 months. she is working in a reputed company and earning more than me. Need your help, on a occasion they threatened my lawyer as well in between. Her brother is a advocate and politically influenced. Please suggest a idea. Am living with old age parents with multiple health issues.