Divorce case

Hello sir we got married in year 2013 and after our marriage my wife live in my home for 9 days and she left to her mother house. As she requested that her mother live alone so I wanna stay with her for 6 months I agree on the basis of humanity. And I frequently use to visit her but after 6 months she said shall we live separate at that time I can't live separate from my parents as my father had a spinal surgery and he was suggested to bed rest for 9 months during this time she use to come morning and went back to her home evening that too she visited 4 times in a year. After my father recovery I asked her let's go to our house she said my mom is visiting USA so we can stay here for more 3 months and I agree it after that I took a house for us but her mom said now don't go separate and try to go abraod. And my wife also start poking me for abroad and finally she said if you don't come abroad I will give you divorce and again I agree and I started proceeding for abroad but one fine day she said I don't wanna live with you and I wanna divorce. Initially I oppose for divorce and we are not in contact from past 1 1/2 year now all of sudden I got notice from her so what should I do. Everyone thinks that's women got affected by divorce but boys too get effected by divorce I too have pride me too undergone metally issue so pls suggest me what to do I'm really fed up with life. My mom can't take any stress anymore till now we have never step in court pls suggest me which can help me.