Divorce

Hello Sir. I was married to this person on the 5th June 2017. Both of us are divorce. One week before the wedding we had received an anonymous email claiming that my husband is a doubting Thomas very insecured, extremist and had suffered from Panic attacks. His previous marriage failed because his ex wife had an affair. My previous marriage failed on similar grounds that my ex husband gave me mental and physical torture due to insecurity. I begged my parents not to continue with the wedding because my husband was giving me an emotional torture and had started feeling insecure then. But I was helpless, with all emotional drama, they somehow convinced me. But to my shock, after two weeks of my wedding I saw few messages on my husbands phone where he has written that he doubts if am cheating on him as well. It's been 5 years since he got his divorce and he is still not out of the trauma and he is still feeling insecure. I am somehow not convinced in continuing this marriage as he is affected mentally because of the trauma the previous marriage has created. My parents are asking me to adjust which I am unable to. Please advixe