Restitution of conjugal right

My husband had a filed a restitution of conjugal rights in hyderabad. My husband native is hyderabad and i am from bangalore. We were married in bangalore and have a 6 years old daughter. He is in US right now. and I am very much willing to join him but he is not ready to take me. He had filed the Restitution case for some other intention. Now the court passed the order saying that the petition is allowed and directed to join him with in 3 months of the order passed. It would be nice if you could answer on below points 1) when i checked the case status online it is mentioned as "Nature of Disposal: Contested--ALLOWED" What does this mean? 2) The judge has passed the petition as i requested him that i wanted to join him. But now thing is that he is in US and he is not ready to take me over there. and even if i mail him , i am not getting any response from him. Can any one please please suggest what to do in this matter. I have a 6 year old daughter and i don't want her life to get spoil and i don't want her to face humiliation in her future. I am totally tensed about this about how to proceed now. 3) His parents are settled in bangalore itself where we were staying after marriage and do I have a right to go and stay in my in laws house now as he is in US and not responding to me.