Lesbian wife - torture

Hi All, I got married in the month of March 2017, We got married post 7 months being in touch with each other. I was given a picture that her previous husband was very suspicious and abusive. She is a working women. Post marriage I took a very good care of her daughter, home and herself however there was an instinct which was haunting me that she is not at all connected to me in any which was of emotions and physical aspect. All she use to say is that she is under strain of work pressure and get away from me. However, she use to text messages till 2 - 3 am in the mid-night when enquired she would say that she is talking to her elder sister in US. I got suspicious when she use to take her phone to washroom in the middle of night for 2-3 minutes. Once I heard her telling I love you and a kiss it was unbearable. But she would never confront it so I installed software in her mobile to check the fact. I found that she is having emotional, mental and physical relationship with her co-worker since 7 years. Her previous marriage was breaked in a planned way to sustain their relationship. I have call recordings, discussion, sms and WhatsApp conversations of both of them. She grew suspicious that I got to know something and framed me to her parents however when her father abused me over the call I had to send their conversations chats to prove myself. When they realised they made house arrest for 10 days and then they discussed that she will give me Khula (Divorce, I am muslim) and fly to US as she is having passport with multiple stamping. With great emotions and expectation, I married her to lead a good life but all she did is cheated on me and her parents. She keeps on telling lies to her parents which I have recording of the same. Now I want advice on this. I want to move legally against her because she just cant ruin my life and go away simply like that. Please help me with under which all sections I can file a case against her. IPC : S.406, S.417, 418, 419, 420, 423, 34, 377, 499 & 497 also Defamation against her. Though few are telling she will book you under 498A but still want to book FIR against her. As few of lawyers telling that as it will be a counter case and a civil case it won’t hold that much value if we put the case first. Also one lawyer threaten me that she can book me under IT Act 2000 but there is no way I have used her mobile for sending any messages or deleted any messages. She herself has given her password to me. I also want her passport to be held by Police in this regard so that she does not fly away from the country. Please help me to add more sections and technical words to file FIR against her.