Harassment by spouse

Sir, I'm married for 14 months and it was an arranged marriage. My wife from the second or third month had petty issues with my sister and mother and they grew up to an extent that I have decided to float a separate family so that they don't get worse. The process of setting up seperate family delayed due to my child's birth and now in a weeks time I'm planning to get set with a separate family in the same city at a far location. The issue now is my wife says she can't send my child to my parents home or she can't accept me visiting them frequently or supporting them morally. These kind of issues have developed too much that she now almost speaks this everyday that she will do that this and all and often she makes it an issue and quarrel with me. I'm much tensed with her behaviour and trying to bring change in her from the past 10 months but in vain. The doubt I have now is if I have to legally step ahead if the situation gets worse, which will be the jurisdiction place as we both are from different cities. Also please advise the ways if my situation can be improved to good living. Thanks in advance.