498a nri

We got married in 2006 and have a 7 year old daughter. But marriage going very bad since 2011. I tried very hard to manage. HIs parents did not like me and did not attend the wedding. He has travel job and always outside of India. In 2014 he left home and I was shocked. My parents were so sad. He was in England for project, he work in BPO IBM. He always travel abroad. Only coming to home for a few weeks. We filed 498a and DV in April 2015 in Janakpuri Station. After 6 months he come back to Delhi with lawyer to attend police IO. His parents got bail in 2016 Jan. But he not. He sent mail asking to settle and compromise but I did not reply as my father said NO. My father very angry and upset. People in society talk about this a lot. I feel shame and only teacher. But we sent letter to Mahindra Tech with FIR. However we come to know that in Jan 2016 they kick him out of job. Now I am only teacher living in house which he bought. But he no give EMI after Jan 2016. I am paying with my dad. It is may 2017 and we check from our immigration source that he left India in 2015 itself for England. But Indian embassy not giving any help in London. They say where to look for him. Address I have and phone I have calling but no answer. My cousin who live in England said the rented flat empty. He is absconding. But my lawyer say if we do PO or NBW then his property got attach. But that property is where my parents and I stay. This is not going as per our wishes. How do we find him. I also not let him talk to our daughter. He beg many times but I say no. I not seen him in 2 years now. I do not know where he is. No one to help us. My lawyer said that Indian government cannot bring him back as 498a is not IPC in other country. We are paying EMI and flat maintenance. But my father saving and brother job not enough. I also earn only 20,000 but EMI is 28,000 what do we do. I am willing to live with him. But he is to come to me and beg first then I consider. What do I do please some one advice. We do not want to lose house. This is for my future and daughter. please advice how to move forward.