Wife job

I am a Asst Enggnr in govt dept.After my marriage my wife also got a job of Asst Professor in govt colg.she hided the news of her job wth me.My posting is at haldia and my wife got her posting at kolkata. She is staying at her paternal home.I am.against my wife job because my conjugal life has become hell.She is not staying wth me and she didnt want to leave her job rather she tells me to leave my job.My conjugal life has become hell due to her job.She is not in touch with me since 10months. I was threatened many times by my wife and hwr family that they will file 498A against me and i will be arrested and my job will come into danger. I had filed a case for Restitution of conjugal life against my wife. My paternal house is at kolkata near to the paternal house of my wife.The house is in the name of my father.My wife is in a plan to enter my paternal house and making false allegations so that she will be able to file 498A against my parents. How will i be able to restrict my wife from entering to her matrimonial house and would be able to save my parents and as well as my job..... Please suggest me