Suggestion for reconciliation instead of filing FIR/DV case

I have filed a complaint against my husband, mother in law and his aunt and uncle in CAW cell 9 month back. Married for 2yrs and 5 months and living separately from past 9 months. The issue was a very petty one which was tried to be resolved 4 times by families but it dint work, due to which I was forced to move to CAW. It is simple as excessive interference of mother in law and relatives in our marriage which is influencing and provoking my husband against me and my parents. I dont want a divorce and want a reconciliation and go back to my in laws house, however, my husband wants a separation. CAW cell is not trying to pressurize him at all, not even convincing or interrogating him properly. Rather they are insisting me to file FIR/case of DV against them and close the file. I DONT WANT TO DO ANY OF THESE - FIR/DV. I'm sure these steps would ruin the situation even further. What else can I do to go back to them. Can a case actively run in CAW cell for a long time - like 2 years or more...? What rights do I have in this regard. Please suggest me about legal options/rights hat can be used to reconcile. Please note, I'm working and all my belongings are with them (in my mother in law's bank locker) - same is mentioned in the complaint that I filed on the day I left. Thanks.