498a crpc

Dear sir, My name is srinivas,i am doing job in state government of andhrapradesh.my wife also employe in same as.we got married in 2011.we have two children's.my wife go to her parental house in 2015,june,some little family allegations.than she is pregnant. after two months,i went her house.i requested her come me to house, but she is not with me.than,i go to my house and doing my job.she filled compliant 498a.now case was running in local court.but i send my elders so many times to her parental house for compromising to our family life.but her and her parents not compromise because her parents depending on her.than i send legal notice to her with my lawyer. she replied to me ,send your elders.than i send, her elders not compromise. I suffered from two years this kind of manner. I am not see the my children from two years.i am very suffer mentally, physically. So please help me advice to my position for further steps. Your faithfully Srinivasa