Breaking of engagement before marriage

Respected Sir, Good Morning!!! Hope you are doing well,, This is Kumar, have some personal problems with my life, I thought I will share with you and wishing the right justices for my life. I got engaged in last 22nd June 2016, I was working as a Software Engineer with Wipro Technologies at Abroad location. That’s before last 6 years I was in Bangalore location. And I got Offer from Singapore with salary 3.15 Lacs Per Month but After engagement her family has forced me to work in Bhubaneswar, Odisha location itself. Bez her family don’t have any son, so they wants I should be work in their place itself. In my family unknowingly I had decided will leave my job there to stay here at Bhubaneswar. And I have started my job with OTV BBSR and my own business as well. While my engagement day I have done all my legal formalities with our Nikhila Utkala Alia Khandayata Samaja with agreement paper with in 6 month we need to marry. But In Dec my family has decided and finalized to marry on Jan 2017 will be our marriage. On Jan her father has called to my father and told this marriage will change in next 2 years bez they have some family problems. Now I am 29 years old and the girls age also same into my. So we have requested many times to her family and with her relatives also. But no one has convinced to her family, she is lying to me in every single matter whether it's small or big. Not willing to respect my family members and talking to them very rudely. Threatening me many times, and written in Meg that If she will marry now then will suicide in Marriage Mandap only. Lastly we have informed to our Samaja people to help us for my marriage. So Alia Khandayata Samaja has called one meeting on 10th Feb 2017 at Berhampur location, and finalized to break off this engagement and return my all gifts which has given in engagement time. I have given One Gold Nickels (70K) and one Diamond ring (27K), one Lehenga dress (21 K) , one Sarees ( 8K) and silver items and so many gift items also. All the things she only forced me to buy this as her own choice. They only given me only one Gold ring which cost is (17K) and my dress also I have purchases my side only. And they have not given me anything. And the girl has taken from me (80K) for her Business also. But now they are not returning me one single items to me and blaming so many types of bad things about me and my family. They have 3 daughters in her family, the elder daughter’s marriage has happed last 9 years back. On that time also her father has did so many types of issues with his big Son-in-Law and his family also. That’s the reason till now his elder daughter is not coming to her family and Son-in-Law family members also not communicating with her family till now. Her father has some mental problem in his life. He is spoiling her daughter and also spoiling one Boys life and his family respects also. Now a day also I have spoiled my all respected and my career as well. And in this time after my engagement her family has forced me to stay in BBSR location only and will be take care of all her mother medical things, her mother has paralyzed lst 3 years back. So as I thought her mother also like to my mother also so I have done whatever I can do in my level best in my life. Now as days I was telling to her family that I don’t want any gifts which I have given in engagement day but give me the clearance in the engagement agreement paper then I can search another girl to marry in my life and will be live my life. But they are not coming to meeting and not giving and clearance for my future life. And now her father blaming that I have taken 50K from him and he is transfer the amount to my account then the Khandayata Samaja people asked him to show the Bank statement report which has the money transferred. So I also agggred that if he has transferred the amount to my account then I will give him one lacs to him, more 50K for fine for me. But sorry to say that till now he has not showing that statement also, not even the statement also. And blaming me I have more than 5 girls in the relationship in my life… Really I don’t know how they can say that to my character, as he has kept to me last 8 months in his home. When I told him before marriage I can’t stay at your home, after marriage only I can stay at your home. Then he has started to blame the bad things to my life. Now a days I am getting very harassments in my life. And she has written me so many bad language in whatsApp messenger and in mobile in mail as well. I have all proof and all call records of while she scrolling me in bad languages. I'm not willing to marry that girl due to her behavior and the mental harassment she is putting me through. She is lying to me in every single matter whether it's small or big. Not willing to respect my family members and talking to them very rudely. Threatening me that she will go to Police and the Women commission mine and threatened to take action, if something happens to her, without knowing the real cause. She has even told me to break this engagement and has sent couple of messages stating that "I did a mistake by agreeing for this marriage" and "I would have found a better girl if I hadn't committed." I tried to convince and talk to her about all these things I'm going through but her behavior never changed rather it has become worse than before. After all this both of our parents and elders discussed about this matter and it was mutually agreed to break the engagement and marriage after financial settlement. I don't want to marry a girl with such behavior and I won't be happy with her. I and my family are going through very hard time. And there is so many things happened in this between 3 months, Kindly request you can I get yours valuable time to meet with and discuss all my life matters. Please help me and save my life. Please suggest me what should I do next… Thanks & Regards