Maintenance and nri

I came to UK on work one year before marriage. After marriage my wife stayed with me in UK for 5 months and than she left to India to her parents house and filed a maintenance case staing all allegations on me and asking for 1 lakh maintenance per month. From the time she left to India, me and my parents are getting threatening calls from her, her parents and relatives, also they started saying that they will file other cases on me. Due to this my parents has asked not to come to India. Its been three years, the case has dragged and since I didn't attend the Court, the District Court gave an exparte order on the maintenance to pay 70,000.00 per month and also to pay the arrears for the last 3 years as well. Last year my wife has filed a Divorce petition and even for this since I have not attended the Court, the District Court has given exparte order and given Divorce on the basis of curelty and desertion. My wife is B.Tech graduate, same as me and before to marriage she worked for an year, later resigned and joined me in UK. After she left to India, she started doing a job, but she made sure that the details are not revealed out. Now I have filed a petition in High Court to provide a Stay order on the Maintenance order given by District Court, as the order is given in complete favour of my wife, a) without considering the circumstance of me (as I have my dependents - parents, grandparents) b) the cost of living in London is very high and one third of my salary goes in income tax. The judge considered Gross salary and not take home salary. c) the exchange rate is calculated as one pound is equal to 95 rupees. But the pound value now is around 80 rupees. The judge has taken the average, instead he considered an high exchange rate, which will not be the same rate, all the time. d) wife is equally qualified as me. She did disclosed in the Divorce petition (last year) that she started working in a private company. But didn't didn't disclose how much she is getting salary and why that salary is not sufficient for maintaining herself. Recently I became UK citizen. I would like to know the below. 1) what are the chances for the High Court to dismiss the Lower court order 2) Though my wife is equally qualified as me and she has done a job earlier and now she claimed in the HC counter petition that , she is doing a temporary job. Somehow I managed and got to know that she is earning around 25,000.00/- per month. So how far High Court consider these things into consideration, in decreasing the maintenance amount Or to dismiss the maintenance order. 3) How I can prove that my wife is working. Can I ask High Court to pass summons to the Company where my wife is working? Is there any other ways? 4) Recently I became UK citizen. What will happen if I don't pay the maintenance amount? Will the Court issue NBW and Red Corner notice. 5) If I resign from my job and is there an option to file a new petition to the court, that my circumstances have changed and I don't have money to pay the arrears or monthly maintenance amount to my wife. And as my ex wife is highly qualified she should do a job to maintain herself? 6) If I resign from my job, will the Court asks me to attend in person to the Court? If Court asks me to attend, what will happen if I don't attend the Court. 6) The High Court has not given the Stay Order yet, now my ex-wife HC lawyer has come and saying that my ex-wife wants 45 Lakhs as a settlement amount. Is settlement is a good option? But the amount she is demanding is too high for me, as I dont have an house or any properties in India or in UK. 7) My lawyer is not giving me much options, asking to go for settlement. And also saying that if we proceed in asking Stay order from HC, than High Court will ask me to deposit half of the a amount that I have to pay as part of Arrears for the last 3 years. How far this is correct? And really I don't have any money with me, due to other things I don't have any savings now. Will I don't have an option to inform the court that I don't have money to pay? 8) Are there any ways/options present for me to avoid the maintenance amount? 9) I got divorced from my wife through an exparte order based on the cruelty and desertion. My ex-wife and her parents are still very furious that they were not able to make me to come to India. So, though I got divorce, if I travel back to India now or in next few months time, will my ex-wife still have any provisions to file any cases (like 498A/DV/etc) on me? 10) Since I am a UK citizen now and not a Indian citizen, how far India laws will apply to me and how far High Court can take any action on me? Could you please respond to all my above queries that will be really help me in taking the decision in this situation. Thank you!!