Without bail against 498, come and return back to abroad.

Presently I am working in Dubai, 2 year before I got married and 35 days I stay with wife, actually I went for 90 days leave and planning ,bring wife along with me,but after marriage I had several problems with wife ( especially her ultimate aim grab money from me.) I cutdown my leave and came back here. she was staying at her home ,rarely she stay at my home 2 or 3 days. and she start torturing me and my parents. that if we did not pay 30 lakhs to her for admission of one school as a teacher ,she will raise case against us under domestic violence act. so I decide to get divorce. I filed divorce case through my father(with power of attorney) after I attend counseling, mediator discussion, try for out sifde settlement as well, but no use she demands 15 lakhs there. so I proceed with case, I could not pay such huge amount for nothing. Then she filed domestic violence case against me and my father and 498A against me ,my parents and my sister( sister who stay with her in our home only 1 day after marriage, she is still abroad) so now family court called 15 feb but with my absence my lawyer postpone to march 15.(my parents get bail for 498 case, but charge sheet still not submitted by police) if I want to attend family court I have to get bail for other cases, how long I have to stay in india. or I can travel without getting bail? I want to know ,I am not getting that much leave from company,3 days maximum I can stay, otherwise I will loose my job as well. one side I lost my family life .kindly advice me.