Respondent Husband Ex Party from Divorce case (Section 13)

Hello Friends, My wife was left me along with my premature child who remains ill and filled divorce petition under section 13 in session court Ambala Haryana in 2014. Since last 3 years i have tried enough to convince not to do so and come back, but she never turned around. Also she never ask any time weather the child dead or alive. In last January i have meet with her along with their parents and tried to convince for Mutual Divorce and they refused to do so. Secondly i tried if she really want divorce then we can move joint settlement / Compromise as Exhibit and court can easily grant decree, but they refused to do so. On the next date i proceeded my self Ex-Party with hope that court can easily gives him decree and i can remarry again as my child has started going to school. My question is that if court decide this case by granting decree as i am already proceeded my self Ex-Party on upcoming date in next month, Can i have to wait for 60 or 90 days as appeal period / waiting period. Being respondent in this case i am not going for appeal because i want remarry again for the betterment of my child. Please Advise ??????