Problem of in laws and my husband

I am from bangalore and my native is tricky. My husband is working in central govt and getting around 45,000 salary every month. We got married by 2012. From 2012 to 2014 February we didn't stay stable in our home or quarters. Because he was tried for upsc exams whatever was there. And ask me to go to my MIL home which is in Salem. That two years he don't gave me money for me. I am a home maker. He give his total salary for his parents. He have two siblings who are working in govt in tamilnadu. I have a baby girl and she born on Jan 2014.. Always my mother in law compelled for every movements in my day to day life. She was a village culture and it was fair to them. They don't allowed me to my parents home. Don't let me to eat a food at every time ask me to wait for my husband if he came too late also. If they feel , I was lean. Then they make me to eat more , even if I vomitted by overload. They mentally harassed me that two years very hardly. I thought sometimes to hang . But I got fear to do that. My hubby is very stout. So they planned to made me like that. Very irritated by them. They don't let me to talk with my husband even at night time he will don't talk to me . He will slept. At morning , he will kept alarm and wake up earlier and go to his mother room. This what he do for that time when I was pregnant. They dont help me when I was pregnant. They don't even cook. I have to cook for them and run here and there to vomit. I have asked a help my husband to keep a cook . I couldn't tolerate that onion and tomato frying smell. But he refused to help me. They are very kanjus. They don't even leave a single paisa to let down. For a monthly expenses they don't give. Even for a daily expenses they will scold me . They don't buy anything from outside . They bring all the things from village every week even a tomato and potato and give it to me to cook. Rice and dhall also they will get it from me.I don't know why they do this. But every month salary of my husband will send to my father in law. He is a retired govt teacher . And my mother in law also the retired govt teacher 7400 grade pay. They getting pension every month. Around 30,000 minimum they will get in Salem village area. So they don't have any expenses.But they fight for every single paisa with my husband. My husband also have this . After marriage , past one year my husband will left me in my home when he want to go office. At that time , I don't have any 1 rupee in my hands. For any emergency. Those all happened at that two years (2012-2014). Because of mental pressure , after my baby born I was fought with them that they are doing such wrong things. I have begged my husband . But they told that they are going to build a own house in a Salem for three brothers nearby place. So they need more money. The land they registered there for 50,00,000. Then they have to build the house. This is for second son. So, next they planned for my hubby. If they need 1 crore , 2 crore or 3 crore. Then how can We get all salary. I asked them . But they didn't respond me. They just cheated me. Now , after ,may 2014 they told me that they don't come and ask me to come. And I have go there and come. Past one year they told me to don't come. I don't know what they are planning. If they are going to ask any compensation or anything. They will do anything for money. They always think of money only. Basically I was a tamil.If anyone reply me in tamil . It will be helpful. And want to tell about them more. I wrote it in a note about them. So many harrassments I met there. I just hate this life. But for my child I am living with him. They could divorce me if they no need to give jeevanaamsam.Because of that trouble they didn't even giving divorce. But I don't like to divorce my husband. The main problem is their parents idea. That is making a own home for every brother in same place. That is for three home in near by place. The cost is too high. Their planning is affecting my life. So my husband is refusing our day to day expenses and saving the money and giving with out my knowledge to my father in law. If I ask anything , he is telling that he had blood pressure. And don't talk about this. We looking our natural life because of his parents. What is the solution ? If I try to go to Salem to meet them . My husband is not allowed me to go there. Even this Saturday and Sunday also I have asked to go there . But he refusing me and avoiding me to go there. They are planning well for something . I don't know about that. Why ? Pls save me from them. Any one help me please. [deleted] suganiya