Divorce and alimony

I married in Sep 2013. I wan an NRI then. Wife's status was Ordinary resident Indian. After marriage she refused to come with me to abroad. I stayed back in India trying to convince her to come with me. She always stayed with her parents and visited me once in 2 weeks for 3 or 4 days. I flew out out India in APR 2014 as it was affecting my NRI status. I convinced her through phone to come abroad. So I came back in June 2014 to take her with me. Only then she told me she doesnt have passport. I flew back alone to UK in July 2014. While abroad, I arranged to get passport for her. All these time she stayed with her parents. I came back to India in Sep 2014 to arrange visa for her ans take her along with me. Visa was arranged by mid October 2014. She again refused to come abroad. My mom also fell ill by then. So I stayed here in India. Tried to convince my wife to come abroad. In Jan 2015 she said OK. So I booked tickets for both of us for Feb 2015. As the flight day became nearer, she again refused to move abroad. I had to cancel the flight tickets. Fed up, I gave up the plan to work and settle abroad. Again all these days she stayed with her parents and visited me once in 2 weeks for 3 or 4 days. I had to go to UK in APR 2015 to finish some unfinished business and take my things back. I came back to India in June 2015. I stayed with my parents and she stayed with her parents and visited me. She conceived in Aug 2015 and since then stayed with her parents. Never visited me in my parents house. I visited her often in her parents house to take her medical checkup. She delivered a baby girl in Apr 2016. I paid all hospital bills, doctors fees for my daughter's medical checkup and immunisation since her birth. She continued to stay with her parents and never visited me. Now I want her to come back but she says to come and stay with her in her parents house. That is not an option for me for personal reasons. What are the options left for me? Shall I send legal notice to her asking her to come and live with me? Can I file for contested divorce if she refuses to come? I want to live with her only if she comes and lives with me wherever I live. Will I be required to pay alimony to her? I have exhausted all my savings since my marriage. No assets left in my name. Only a car loan is running. I get money from my elder brother to pay car loan EMI. Also I have not been working sice I moved back to India in June 2015 since I cant find a job in India for my experience. Also she is equally qualified as I am and she has right to ancestral properties worth crores of rupees in Market value(worth lakhs in government guidance value). Also, she rfused to change the surname after marriage. While she took passport in 2014, she took it in her parents' house. Police verification also done in that limit. She also took aadhar card in her parents house address in 2015. He election ID card is also in that address. She continues to be in her parents family card and they get govt ration supplies every month in that card. I recently opened a joint bank account with her. My address is that of my parents' and hers is that of her parents.. Will these records help me in getting divorce and refusing alimony?