Divorce

Hi, I am married on Feb 29,2012. Our marriage is love and arrange marriage. We had so much misunderstanding in post marriage. I had personal loan in the bank for 7 lacks and living very tough financial life. My wife was comparing with others always that I am not settled in life. She also talks bad about my family members and she wanted to live separately from them. My mom and dad is living in my home which i built before marriage. Still my dad owns the property. I got a chance to travel abroad from my work and my wife was conceive during that period. So I left her in my home and traveled alone. my wife delivered a boy baby last year and now he is one year old. After her delivery i traveled back to abroad and working from there. I was sending enough funds her every month for her expenses. I was saving all my money for repay the loan. I put around 1 lacs for my son's future. But since last 6 months, when i was in abroad, she keep on torturing me to send my mom and dad out of from the home. I am not capable to manage the family. I cannot balance my life with loans. you should not be married me. Better you can divorce me. You cannot make me a good future. I was in frustration in work and personal life. I had a girl friend in abroad but not in a serious relationship. when I reached india last month, my wife read the whatsapp conversations from my phone. She has taken my passport and US dollars (to repay the loan). I asked her to compromise between us and tried to explain what was happened. she was not ready to listen anything. The next day the family members from both of the family compromised us. But in the same night, she abused all of our family members and left from the home with my son. When she taken the phone from me, i have cleared the conversation and changed the lock in my iphone. she was demanding me to open my iphone to know what was happened. I told her, better we can leave it and focus on what to do next. But the next day she filed a petition on me in the police station that i had a affair with the girl in abroad. The police questioned about the relationship and i told them it was a friendship kind of relationship. The police officer asked me to compromise with my wife demanding. 1. My wife will keep the passport until she trust me. 2. I should not go back to abroad 3. I should work in my Home city Upon sign on the above she will return the things taken from me. I have signed on her conditions and returned to home. She returned only my official laptop and nothing else. She is torturing me everyday about the past things with abusive words. She dont want to pay the money. She asked me to resign the job. Now I dont have a job and money. She is not ready to return my dollar. she said , she gonna keep them for the son's future. She said, If I repay the loan, I will be free in my life and she dont want it. she wanted to suffer with loans all the day. I was working in IT industry. Now I need to find a new job in my home town and repay the 3 years of EMI. everyday when i see her face I am getting all the memories that she has taken me to the police station. All the people looks at me with bad expressions. She abused my brothers family and they stopped visiting me. My dad and mom is sleeping out of the home when she is inside the home. She is behaving very rudely to me. Everyday I am in depression about that I lost my career, my family, bad name in the society. Mentally i am suffering a lot. we both counseled already but the problem still continues. what would be the solution for this ? If i file a divorce, can I recover the passport from her. I dont care about the money. I need passport for my new job also I am planning to travel. will it affect my travel. ?