False Domestic Voilence

I got married in the month of April 2016, starting from the day one I had nightmare situation with my wife. Used to insult me saying that am fit for nothing, my family members doesn't like me etc etc and their family members also used to abuse me & my family. She & her family threatened us saying that 498A will be filed against me & my family members. And finally in 2nd week of August she well planned and created a bit argument for unnecessary reasons saying that she will commit suicide and send me to jail. so my self with my uncle & aunt dropped her at parents place requesting them to intervene and resolve the issue, in-turn they started attacking me physically at their home instead of resolving issue with meaningful discussion. There was No communication from her/her family for 4 months and even they did not respond to our calls. Finally my uncle who was witness to all the scenes when she left the home intervened & called her brother- But he abused him badly & disconnected the phone. So we have approached advocate and sent notice to her with all the scenarios. As soon as they received the notice, filed a compliant in Women police station on me and got a call from police asking me attend for counselling next week. And my advocate is also not reachable now to have a legal advice (as he left to some remote village on personal emergency). Am working in a MNC and only bread winner of my family (old parents, unmarried sister & one brother-just completed education). Now am completely scared & depressed- as my old parents & family would be on road if something goes wrong (even my wife used to work as software engineer in a reputed company & left job before marriage) Request your valuable inputs/suggestion on how to proceed further.