I loved a girl. She got engaged. Out of anger, I sent her fiancee a mail which had a picture we (me and the girl) together near a beach. Also, I sent few messages to her and her fiancee requesting her to show some humanity on me and console me, till i come out of her memories. I requested her help me to come out of depression, to be with me for sometime. She refused. And it seems that her engagement is broken because of my messages, and she said me that she filed a police complaint. What options I have now to come out of these.
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1) you should send an email to the lady apologising for your behaviour
2) mention that you love her a lot and want to marry her
3) in case any police complaint is filed notice would be issued to you ti record your statement
4) obtain copy of the complaint filed by your girl friend
Immediately file a civil suit for recovery and damages against her before civil court and claim all amount which was beared by you on her and claim compensation for mentally and physical harassment along with damages .
File a criminal complaint against her before police or court for defamation and threaten to implicated in false cases.
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She has got every right to do so and I think she must do this to teach a hard lesson.
being a man when you could not take simple rejection in life then I wonder what will you do in your career.
You must seek forgiveness from her and take some measure to penance.
1. You have acted illegally and inhumanly.
2. Had you really loved her, you would not have destroyed her said marriage alliances and the information of your said pictures may cause problem for her having further alliances in future also.
3. However, it will be prudent on your part to apologise before her assuring non repetition of such act of yours.
4. However, even if she lodges a police complaint no section can be put against you for causing to break marriage negotiation and your sending of messages which are not untrue can not be treated as an offence.
What you did is a recipe for disaster. You can now be sued for damages through a lawsuit and also criminally prosecuted for the offence of stalking. The only option is to contest any case if and when it is filed against you.
To give more clarifications to this - I had clearly stated her that I would not be any kind of threat to her if at all she decides to move on and marry someone else. However, at the time of separation, the girl spoke and behaved harsh and rude on me, doubting my loyalty, stated that she wants to slap me when I tried to convey my feelings to her and how much I missed her etc. and hurting my self respect and pride. She also threatened me of giving police complaint and started speaking so inhumanely while I got shattered and kept crying in public listening to all such bad words. I did my best to her, to excel her in her personal and professional life. She adored me stating, I was always there for her and it's because of me she is a good person in life now. Now all of a sudden, her tone, words and communication changed. I requested her to give sometime for me to come out of her absence, she rejected very rudely. All such things added up and made me to share a pic, (where we had been standing together in a beach), as an attempt to make her and her fiancee how good we were and with the hope that at least the pic might remind her of us and she might exhibit some humanity. Because she too were under similar lonely situations multiple times in the past as well, & she agrees that I was always there for her during her difficult times. Hence, it was not an attempt to cause any kind of nuisance, but it was an attempt to make it understand how much I loved her, how much I miss her and how much stress I am going through because of her betrayal (ethically she betrayed me, she too has admitted it. Not sure if this can be legally proved).
as on date police complaint has been filed by your girl friend .
contact a local lawyer and contest the case on merits
apply for and obtain bail
And it seems that her engagement is broken because of my messages, and she said me that she filed a police complaint. What options I have now to come out of these.
If she is filing a criminal complaint with the police on the grounds of cheating, blackmail and outraging the modesty of women, you may first obtain AB and then challenge her case in the court of law.
Hence, it was not an attempt to cause any kind of nuisance, but it was an attempt to make it understand how much I loved her, how much I miss her and how much stress I am going through because of her betrayal (ethically she betrayed me, she too has admitted it. Not sure if this can be legally proved).
All your explanations to justify the cause of action for the act done by you shall not be considered as an excuse to your illegal acts,especially at the initial stage hence you may have to proceed legally against the action by first obtaining AB and then try for compromise.
You have done what you could have done. Now just contest any case after obtaining bail if and when it is filed.
1. You have tried your best to justify your improper act of uploading the personal photographs of you two during your good time.
2. The said revengeful act can have only one result i.e. destroying her prospect of marriage with the third person.
3. However, as stated in my earlier post, she can not legally take you to task for your said act which has ruined her prospect of marriage with the said third person.
4. You will go scot free for your said act.