1. It appears that your marriage with your husband did not gel well,
2. Now a days, no working lady is asked to leave her job for child rearing. Their earnings are also not taken away by the in laws,
3. First decide what do you expect and want from this matrimonial relationship,
4. After that talk to your husband informing him about your dufficulies,
5. If you find no solution from him, ecide as to what do you want to do with your this relationship,
6. act as per your decision which may be filing a divorce suit or continuing the way things are running now.