1. Where is the registrar of marriage office here that i can go to. Is it the same as where i got married because online it shows various different places. If you know would then it would be great if you could guide. Mine was under special marriage act which i forgot to mention earlier.
Since you said that your marriage was a court marriage, it is the same place called as the marriage registrar. You can approach the same office for further clarifications.
2. Documentary evidences he has with full and correct name is his birth certificate, affidavit which we made for passport making, passport, pan card, sbi bank passbook, hdfc bank statements. Are these documents good enough you think?
Yes all the evidences shall be good enough to prove his correct name.
3. If they refuse, how tedious, expensive would it be to get a court order amd how about much time would it take for the same.
The cases of such type may not consume more time, in my opinion if properly followed this case should conclude within six months from the date of filing.
Would it be possible to talk to you over the phone if i have any further doubts?
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